A younger man wants to feel that you’re approaching the concept of dating younger men from a positive place.
He wants to feel that you see what is special about him, and not just how he is the opposite of everybody else you’ve dated.
He wants to know what’s interesting and popular in your age group. Don’t try to keep up with a young buck by suddenly wanting to go out all throughout the week and drink hard after work. If there are certain things you need to happen in bed, present them in a way so it’s fun for both of you, and not just all in service of your big O.
Your body won’t bounce back the same; and if he wanted a party girl, he’d be with one, instead of you. The greatest thing about dating someone younger is that he has so many places to show you that you’d never know about otherwise, and visa versa. You’ve had a longer life and inevitably accomplished more than your cub.
But perhaps that's a huge problem when it comes to happiness and satisfaction.
So maybe it's worth my while to avoid dudes who are more likely to be less serious. Even if you do get into a serious relationship with a younger dude, the whole babies thing is likely to be a conundrum. Even if you do get into a serious relationship with a younger dude, his lack of life experience — and dating experience — could make things complicated. Older guys are more likely to know how to deal with things like temptations, rough patches, and periodic sexual problems.
So long as you see your age as an advantage, so will your cub.
(No offense, olds.) But recently — after a certain 25-year-old I was seeing made me really sad by breaking things off (even though he did it in a way that was quite considerate) — I have begun to appreciate something: Exclusively dating men 28 and younger (which has been my M. It's been my experience that many, many dudes in their 20s are just coming into their own, sexually.
It's gotten easier and easier, with age, to attract women — and there's a lot more variety out there in the wide world than there was on their college campus.
The "Urban Dictionary" states: "Cougars are gaining in popularity — particularly the true hotties — as young men find not only a sexual high, but many times a chick with her shit together." I like to think of a cougar as a confident, independent, young-spirited woman who happens to prefer the company of younger men.
Here are 10 common myths about cougars in the dating world, and the REAL facts that totally debunk them:1.