I just thought he was the hottest, funniest man I’d ever met.
He was more exciting to be with than any of the 20-something guys I knew.
Also, this probably makes the guy more conveniently located to wherever you go for work/play.
When you think you’ve got serious problems with pulling your life together, the older man is there to tell you not to worry, it takes lots of time and effort to succeed.
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You know, a meal that doesn’t come out of delivery box. All that confidence that comes with age means your older guy can totally win over your parents. While a younger guy is still pinning his hopes on dating a supermodel, an older guy is over it.Unlike guys in their 20s, men in their 30s and above have an established sense of who they are in this world and what they’re doing with their lives.This makes them much more relaxed and less eager to impress (which is never an impressive quality) than their younger counterparts.They tend to have more of it than the guys your own age. As annoying as it can be to have some man hold the door open for you every time you enter a building, it’s a gesture of feminine appreciation that has more or less evaporated amongst the younger generation due to progressive ideologies (which, don’t get me wrong, are a good thing overall).It’s unlikely that your older man will share his home with a couple of unruly slobs he calls his best friends.