Around January he started in with calling my his “girlfriend” (sort of jokingly, as in: “What are you up to today?” “Just watching football and drinking some beer, might harass my girlfriend a bit ;)” …saying he misses me, that I’m perfect, he “likes me a lot”, addresses me as baby, things like that.Up until the last 6 weeks or so…in hindsight I can see a change. He has logged out of Kik, which he usually only does for like vacations when his phone might be laying around unattended. Way more hot and cold, longer and longer periods of NC (starting at 3 days one week, he apologized, was busy…then the next week it was again 3-4 days NC…again apologized etc). I thought this was just a ridiculous degree of NC when I finally messaged him after holding back on doing so on Saturday (day 5 of NC), but then I got the kik message that he is logged off.
Go Hit the Web The internet is always your best companion as a novice.If that site’s more focused on your local area or just by the neighboring hoods, then it should be the most desirable pick for you.A good example to that would be Swing Life Style, where you can localize your search, get to private message other swingers and basically get to set up a date to meet up. We’d spend a good hour of our 3 hour hotel dates just talking and laughing. My AP situation in a nutshell: we met on AM a year ago…he was the first person I cheated with and is my only “AP” I have had so to speak (there have been a few one or two timers thrown in there over the past year since I “broke the seal”, whoops). Started off as NSA…then sort of drifted to FWB because we just liked each other a lot.