There are a multitude of reasons why this happens, but at the core, he is not ready or able to embark in a substantive relationship, regardless of what his profile says.
Rather, he moves from one online-created connection to the next, or back and forth between many, and barely if ever have to leave the house.
However, given his age and other potential factors such as how easily distracted he is, once he discovers just how many choices he has online, he may become less interested in committing and more interested in continuing to look around. The Experimenters He believes that older women “know what they want.” He is typically 20 to mid 30's and he wants often because he believes that an older woman has much to teach him sexually, and this prospect excites him.
Nonetheless, if you’re looking for a fun couple of months, look no further. He realizes that the easiest way to access older women is online.
Or perhaps something pivotal is missing in his relationship, and he wants to be reminded or reassured there is life beyond his current confines.
This can be a difficult and provocative situation for all parties involved, so proceed with caution.
By avoiding actual human contact he isn’t forced to push his boundaries or risk challenging the perfection of his fantasy women with the experience of a real life woman.
For many reasons, it is difficult for him to make room for something real. Wide-Eyed but Distractable This primarily 20 to mid 30's guy is excited about the possibility of expanding his horizons and meeting new people.
However, with patience and fortitude there may be the possibility that a substantive relationship can develop.
After all, he has experienced love before, which is why he’s so heartbroken now, and why you encountered him online.