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Halloweeen/costume parties Pretty much any costume is an excellent conversation starter. Beaches/poolside You've already seen each other in a bathing suit. Make them feel welcome by starting up a conversation!
Community service days Who doesn't love a man committed to helping his community? Alumni events Talking about your alma mater is an easy icebreaker. Bike tours If you like cycling, this is an excellent, relaxing way to meet someone who does as well. Walking tours See a bit of the city and chat about what you come across! Group vacations If the idea of doing a trek up Machu Picchu appeals to both of you, you're off to a great start. Holiday parties Mistletoe and eggnog - this is a recipe for romance! Bar crawls Unlike regular bar drinking, this is a group activity, and everyone is getting friendlier as the crawl progresses. Libraries This is a great opportunity to practice eye contact! Nail salons More and more men are getting manicures and pedicures.
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Plus you get to eat and drink, which are activities that everyone enjoys. They are literally all around us, and yet most single women are at a loss as to where to meet them. Improvisation classes Any group activity with the potential for discomfort/embarrassment/laughter will bond you. Driving ranges, on the other hand, are much easier, cheaper and tend to be more social. Specialty retail stores Hardware stores are famous for being pickup spots, but they're not the only stores where men shop! Find out if those pretzels he's buying are any good. The mechanic You're both sitting there waiting for your oil change anyway - you might as well chat. Commuter trains/buses At the very least you have some geography (and work schedule) in common. The key to maximizing your chances of meeting someone special wherever you find yourself is to keep your eyes open and your head up (smartphones down! Be prepared to make eye contact, smile and say hello! Take a break from your smartphone, laptop or book and strike up a conversation with a fellow traveler. The DMV Everyone (who has a driver's license) ends up in line at the DMV at some point and everyone is bored. Keep an eye out next time you're picking up that new cell phone or shopping for glasses. Crossfit and other high intensity classes If you like each other after getting super sweaty and lifting heavy things, you just might have a future together. " There are 124 million unmarried adults in the United States alone. Dog parks If you have a dog and he has a dog and your dogs like each other, you're halfway there! Networking events Just because it's about business doesn't mean you can't mix in some personal. Movie theaters If you are a solo moviegoer, you'll spot the other solo moviegoers. While there is no way to measure precisely how many of those are straight, romantically unattached men, it is safe to say there are many millions who fall into that category. Driving ranges Golf courses are a big investment of time and money. Language classes Asking an attractive guy to practice Spanish with you? Walking your dog (or him walking his) is another great way to meet men. Yoga studios Generally female-dominated, but that's precisely why some men take up yoga to begin with. Strike up a conversation while you're choosing your movie or buying your popcorn. Hotel bars/restaurants Maybe he's just visiting, but maybe not - and patrons tend to be chattier because there are so many solo diners.