ENFP: You chase anyone who’s a little bit of a human puzzle.You’re unique and magnetic, and typically do not have the same relationship twice.It might take them a while to get the hint, but that’s OK; you’ll be around. You’ll happily explore lots of connections, for weeks or months, before jumping to the next new thrill. You are the quintessential pursuer, and are intrigued by an unpredictable person whose next move you can’t quite figure out.ISTP: You’re happy single until someone shows you life is better with company. You are the chill, up-for-anything friend who doesn’t want to be tied down to a long-term obligation.You’re driven and have about 18,340 goals at any one time — and relationships, while important, usually come second to your school and career aspirations.
You tend to be surrounded by people you love — but you tend to hide your deepest hopes, fears, and passions inside.
You like to get to know people slowly and casually, until you suddenly realize they sync up with you in a potentially lasting way — until you can see a long-term, always-evolving relationship with them in your mind’s eye. When you do meet someone awesome, you’ll dive in and explore a relationship, but you’re keenly aware that there’s plenty of time for stable commitment down the road. ISTJ: You look for stable relationships, where you know what to expect.
You don’t like the process of dating, per se, but you typically build relationships by the book; you’ll grin and bear the small talk, dinners and coffees until you meet someone who checks all the boxes and does all the right things. A relationship is showing up every day and supporting each other.
You love to explore the depths of a special someone; dating is just the vehicle to find the next great romance of your life. You’ll send them cute “thinking of you” texts, bake them cookies, run over to their dorm if they’re sick, help them prep for their next big exam, and be endlessly open about your feelings.
Your excitement for life is endless, and relationships are just an enthusiastic extension of that. You’re a charmer, and may have left a few hearts in your wake over the years. ) You typically play the field and talk to numerous prospects — until, occasionally, one slowly inches into your heart.