I want to figure out my sexuality and continue to explore this new territory with my friend, but stay friends with him if he’s not interested.
How do I approach the topic so as to not scare him off?
After all this heavy conversation we decided to play some CS: GO together like we usually do but we ended up in bed together instead. We haven’t told anyone yet, but decided not to go out of our way to keep it a secret.
Afterwards we talked some more and discussed the possibility of a relationship. The area we live in is reasonably tolerant and neither of our parents are anti-gay, which I am grateful for.
Once you register, you'll be able to manage your account online.It’s funny, I didn’t really think of myself as coming onto him but I definitely made that statement hoping something would come of it…Anyway I told him that first and foremost I valued our friendship and wanted to stay friends whatever happened between us. He asked me if I was okay with working out our feelings together (read: having sex until we figure out how we feel) and I told him yes.I’m really worried that this will fuck up our friendship. What if he’s been scoping me out this whole time, waiting for his chance to pounce? Also if he decides he doesn’t want to be around me anymore, I’m going to be alone for the rest of the summer. And then what happens if we do decide to get together, become a couple. I’m looking for any general advice regarding sexuality and figuring yourself out as well.tl;dr: Thought I was straight, ended up engaging in mutual oral sex with a friend that I also thought was straight.