Having sex should not be a result of feeling of pressure, guilt or using sex as a vehicle for getting someone to commit to a relationship.While it may be hard for you to do, I recommend you have a conversation with the man you are currently dating.
You are dating in a new decade and your experience with this is very limited.
Stage two is where two people have decided that there is enough interest to continue to getting to know each other. Although one or both of you may continue to date other people during this stage, this decision has more to do with personal preference rather than commitment to a relationship.
During this stage two people feel the excitement of getting to know each other leading to spending increasing amounts of time together.
Should the relationship end during this stage, heartbreak, grief and loss are emotions usually experienced.
Since there is a natural progression to dating, hurrying any stage can lead your partner to feel as though you are needy.