If you do not be prepared to lower your standards or working significantly harder and becoming very very bland in your profile. Her name is Marta and she is from Poland but it;s not a problem for me (I'm French).
is the longest running online dating site on the web launched in 1996.
Here I was a single, athletic, educated employed mid 30 something man looking to get back into the dating pool and at best of 50 emails I would send out to 50 different women who I "matched" well with I would at best get 2 back.
And I do have to admit at first my profile was very honest and very much me.
“If Dungeons and Dragons is your thing you want that person who will say: ‘Oh my god! “Flaunt your big nose, curvy full figure or weird snaggletooth, and you’ll attract that kind of person who finds it exciting.” In other words, if you want to find true romance, Yagan advises, “Look for the 1% who will love you for who you really are.” This seems like good advice for women and poor advice for men.
Statistically, women receive way more messages on OKC than men; so it makes sense for them to narrow the scope of people they would attract by crafting their profile accordingly.