She keeps telling me how I put her through ten torturous years of marriage, and how me finally moving out was the best day of her life, and how she is so much happier now. I suspected that she had (or still has) an emotional affair. She remarried recently and I can't seem to move on. Either way, I can shake this feeling of blame, even though we're approaching the 4th year of being split up, and with her being remarried, etc.
She can't seem to remember a single positive thing about our marriage. Like the guys in this post I was always faithful, supportive, dont do drink or drugs, love our teenage son, took care of her whenever she was ill and suppported her academic ambitions, loving her through good times and bad. Reply My wife left me 6 months ago apparently I made her so miserable she just kicked me out with nothing to my name.
No one can help a person get over their ex-husband/ex-wife.
The person has to do it on their own, and on their own timetable.
It's kind of like hanging out with your platonic female divorced friend and hearing her perspective on your divorce and your love life issues. We were married for 16 years and have known her for 38 years .
Reply While I am currently experiencing number three on your list of what not to do, "Rewrite history", by imagining that everything was always cheery, I find that my wife is experiencing number three in reverse. deep down i want this to work out and the truth is she and i are severly not right for each other. She no longer speaks to anyone from her past it's like she has a new life at 42 , I think she has gone insane Reply My world crunbled about 6 months ago when my (now ex) wife told me she wanted a divorce. Reply My divorce was finalized at the end of January, though we split of up 3 years ago. Or maybe my sadness is because I feel like I let my daughter down.
It’s a little sad, in a way, and you almost miss that pain, just because you lived with it for such a long, long time. There’s nothing better than that moment you look in the mirror and think, “Wow, look where I was a year ago, and look at me now.” Divorced Guy Grinning is a blog for men facing divorce and dating after divorce. Has not seen our son In 6 months but texts him every now and then.
Reply Hi,even though I have heard all this from my therapist I still can not get past it.
My wife and I were married for 30 years together 33 years.
My ex is still in town, and I get to see her with her boyfriend.... I did alot.me and my ex .out more..dinner dates...movies.. I have had the love of a woman more than once, and while it certainly has it's moments, the price is much too steep. Reply My wife left me 3 weeks ago, I found out she has been having an affair for around a year, she's pregnant to him too. I worked my butt off and provided for me and hubby.
What the hell do I do, she's moved back into our home saying that she's stopping until she gets somewhere, but she doesn't love me anymore and doesn't want any communication between us. He didn't appreciate it, we had arguement and I accidentally threw a hair spray can, no lies it hit his head slightly and bounced off his head and hit our wall clock.